I am a Toastmaster.
I have been a member of Toastmasters since 2005 and plan to be as long
as I can speak. I earned my Distinguished
Toastmasters credentials, (DTM) in 2010.
This is the highest educational award a Toastmaster can earn. Even with
this accomplishment I am active in two clubs and attend meetings regularly. I have helped Charter four clubs and I am working
with others to do the same. I have held every club officer position one can
have. I have mentored dozens of fellow
Toastmasters. When I travel on business
and have the time I will visit a club meeting in a city I am in. Why do I do this? To keep my speaking skills crisp and to
challenge my ability to listen, learn and think.
Like public speaking, staying positive takes
practice. Like most activities in life,
you only get better at something if you practice doing it. My
investment today in being positive, no matter what happens to me or what I make
happen, leads me to a being positive tomorrow, and the next day and the next.
Why is it important to be positive? People like being around other positive
people. Successful people like being
around those who are positive, reinforcing, and say YES! Saying YES! To all that is good, is an opportunity to
attract and connect with others who will feed off your positive attitude and
will reward it by being positive themselves.
It’s self-fulfilling.
Starting your day with a positive saying, or studying
something positive or reading an uplifting, positive message, will start you
mind off in a positive way. I recite the
Optimist Creed, daily. It makes me feel
good and reminds me to be positive.
On my way to the office when I am in town, I listen to positive
podcasts or cd’s that reinforce this attitude.
When a customer or inquiry calls my office and if I am unavailable they
get this positive message:
Thank
you for calling the mobile phone of Bradley Beck,
Director
of Yes! at Design Master color tool, Inc.
Yes! I
am away from my phone.
Yes! I
will get back with you if you leave a message
Yes! I
appreciate your business
Have a
colorful day!
Corny,
no actually a little squashy and green-beany, (My kids can’t stand when I say
that) I actually get people commenting on my positive voice mail. Has that ever happened to you? The point is, being happy and positive is a
choice. Yes! the world has negativity in
it, yet I choose not to dwell in the domain of divisiveness and despair. I only
have so much time and I choose to make my time, positive.
Being
positive is the best defense in a world which thrives on the negative. Being
positive is best spelled out with the following words and their meaning;
·
Possible - capable of
·
Optimistic - a favorable view of events or conditions
·
Sure - convinced
·
Illuminative – to light
up
·
Thankful - expressing
gratitude
·
Imaginative - create
in the mind
·
Vision - sense of
sight
·
Enthusiasm - intense favor
The first letters of each word spell out the word, “positive.”
I look for opportunities to be positive and to act positive. When one is persistent and determined to
practice their positive attitude, it becomes a habit which will open doors and guide
you on the path to success and happiness.
I have studied being positive for years and have been greatly
influenced by my parents positive outlook on life. Then, as I attended school I had positive
teaches and friends. And then as I started my professional career in selling, I
studied the likes of Jeffrey Gitomer and his “Little Gold Book of YES!
Attitude.” Then, I read classic titles on having
a positive attitude like, “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill, “How to Win
Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie and “Life is Tremendous” by
Charlie Tremendous Jones. I listen to “The
Strangest Secret” by Earl Nightingale a least once a quarter. I seek out positive lectures, seminars, you
tube videos and people.
As in Toastmasters, when one presents a speech their
words are evaluated. As we live our
lives, we are being evaluated for how we conduct ourselves. Having
a positive attitude has afforded me more in opportunities than the opposite ever
would have.
In a phrase, “practice being positive.”