There is an old Aesop Fable about the Wind and the Sun engaged in a dispute as to which was the most powerful. Suddenly they saw a traveler walking down the road and the Sun said, “I see a way to decide our dispute. Whichever of us can cause the traveler to take off his cloak, shall be declared the most powerful. You begin.” The Sun retired behind a cloud, and the Wind began to blow as hard as it could upon the traveler. The harder he blew the more closely the traveler wrapped his cloak around himself, till at long last the Wind had to give up in despair. Then the Sun came out and shone in all its glory upon the traveler, who soon found it too hot to walk with his cloak on and took it off. The classic moral of the story is persuasion is better than force. Using persuasion, rather than force to influence your opposition in their decision-making takes a different kind of disputation. The ancient Greek view was to appeal to ethics or credibility, emotions and logic known as Ethos, Pathos and Logos. The use of this technique takes applying the source of one’s wealth, the mind, rather than the brute force of the body and practice its use. The classic Sophist used rhetoric or the art of persuasion to inform, influence, and motivate their audiences’ beliefs and behaviors. Today, propaganda is used to indoctrinate people with the news, and social and mass media towards a particular agenda bordering on coercion. Public policy developed by interested parties aggressively threatens us by use of fear or to shame a person’s behavior. Pundits, politicians, and provocateurs are exceedingly expert at blowing these winds of discontent. My preference is using the disinfecting rays of a cogent argument to illuminate a problem, and to use pinpoint persuasion to find a suitable answer. Consider any contested topic such as illegal immigration or concerns about the climate. As Aristotle explains, there are four reasons for perfecting and using persuasion. To get at truth and justice. To teach others as a tool. To be able to argue both sides and understand the whole problem. And to defend oneself and their position in a dialog. The alternative is the use of force which is the failure of persuasion and threatens an individual’s sovereignty. A young man was walking down a street and happened to hear a dog give a painful YELP! and soon came upon an old man sitting in a rocking chair on his porch. On the porch floor next to his chair was an old dog whose tail would get caught under the rail of the rocking chair every time the old man moved back and forth. Just then the old dog let out another painful YELP! The young man asked, “What’s wrong with your dog.” The old man said, “Every time I roll back, the dog’s tail gets run over.” The young man continued, “Why doesn’t the dog get up?” The old man replied, “I guess it doesn’t hurt bad enough.” Most people lament about how bad things are, yet they have no interest in finding a solution. They just prefer to complain. It’s time they quit whining and improve their ability to persuade by learning the skills available to make better arguments. Learning to use rhetoric in a positive way and to confront the fierce winds that seem unending is a skill worth pursuing. With determination and persistence, you can start to get proficient at any task. The first one to convince is yourself. When my daughter was young, I would read to her before she went to sleep. One of her favorite books was, “The Little Engine That Could.” Remember the refrain the Little Train would say repeatedly; “I think I can, I think I can, I think I can.” This is not just a book for children, but as my business mentor Jeffrey Gitomer states, “It’s a philosophy for life.” Our ability to persuade and to tell better stories that make a point is the best alternative to what has happened throughout recorded history by force, and that outcome never ends well for most. It is never moral to use force unless you are physically attacked and are using it to defend yourself from harm or injury. The forceful use of a clear and compelling story that demonstrates a point is the most powerful tool we have. Consider joining a Toastmasters Club to practice your persuasion skills. www.toastmasters.org https://kimmonson.com/featured_articles/practice-persuasion-against-pundits-politicians-and-provocateurs/?vgo_ee=pL4O5Lr/VgzQQtQBNjWGT5pdqx+A93nPtHfFKMS7AZnbtl+I6UNSf2/T:EXJ2UYqSY+KkyDTa1tlTUKAZflDQ+aQR

Bringing the past Into the Future

“Age appears to be best in four things; old wood best to burn, old wine to drink, old friends to trust, and old authors to read,” wrote the English philosopher and statesman, Francis Bacon. This prudence from the past can be updated. I recently bought tickets to a concert, and they arrived digitally. I was disappointed when I could not add them to my ticket stub collection of multicolored strips of heavy stock paper of all the previous concerts I have attended. I wanted to listen to the bands on the way to the concert, yet my vehicle did not have a CD, cassette, or an eight-track player. Oh sure, I could print out a commemorative ticket for the concert or stream the band’s music in the car, but it’s not the same. There is something tactile missing in the world today. I could speak into a software program to write this essay, yet I chose to use the hundred plus year old technology of the keyboard. This helps me think about what I am writing. In a world where speed and efficiency rule the day, old things help us slow down to reflect. This reflection helps me clarify my thoughts and allows for deeper penetration of meaning and understanding. There is a place for the coming Artificial Intelligence revolution, and I embrace its ability to speed up the gathering of information and doing mundane tasks, yet there is something familiar, comfortable and even magical in the experience of opening an old dictionary, encyclopedia, or a thesaurus and exploring an idea or the discovery of information. It seems like Western society is losing the sensation of wonder that one used to engage in and touch real things. Think about the convenience the digital world brings. In your smart phone you most likely have thousands of photographs. You can carry them with you to show and share with ease. Yet, I enjoy looking at my family’s old photo books with square Brownie quality images of long past relatives and my mind goes to what life was like back in those days. I don’t get that same experience scrolling on glass like I do with holding a piece of the past. I find myself longing for a simpler time, although it was harder and not nearly as palliative. Nostalgia, like an old story among friends, brings warmth to the heart and feelings of better times. Remember in grade school the sweet smell of activity sheets reproduced from the mimeograph machines with their purple ink? And yes, I did place the paper to my nose and inhale. Do you remember opening a can of Play-Doh and the aroma wafting over you or playing “cops and robbers” with your cap gun and that sulfur stench once the trigger was pulled and the sparks flew. All these experiences trigger my memories of days gone by. Were they truly better days or is my mind only remembering the pleasant parts of those years? There is a recalibration of society going on and it causes me to reach back for those familiar things of certainty. I know that’s why I enjoy visiting records shops, used bookstores and antique markets. I like the taste of familiar foods like meatloaf and mac and cheese. I enjoy listening to familiar music and listening to long ago tales that make a point. They are evergreen and lasting. Production, innovation, and technology make our lives better in almost every aspect as they transform our world. However, old wood makes lasting furniture, old wine ferments the brain and loosens the tongue for conversation, old friends are honest and will tell you the truth, and old authors share their lives, experiences, and wisdom on paper. Perhaps the things of the past can be integrated and balanced with the technology of the present. Only time will tell. In the meantime, write a letter or send a postcard to someone. They will be grateful for the time you took to write them. Find your old film camera and take a walk and photograph what you see on a roll of film. Pull out your old vinyl records and read the liner notes like you did when you first bought that new artist album. Read a physical book and enjoy the tactile experience of holding the words. Participate in a local organization that teaches calligraphy, stamp collecting, or coin collecting. You’ll meet amazing people who share your interests. Incorporating these older technologies and activities will bring meaningful interactions and points of view that create bonds, community, and a more grounded pace of life. Perhaps the knowledge of the past can be incorporated into the wisdom of the future. https://kimmonson.com/featured_articles/bring-the-past-into-the-present/?vgo_ee=%2FjdE9GR6Ov%2Fg7ZEHhte%2BEArXIvSuBsR3gk1pUFbcnpGKe1Ky4roTkHdw%3AVUsr5jE9GVj86d8oNROUyyKQlxR5oiI3

Looking Up

At the edge of an old town square was a tall clock tower that chimed every hour and on the half hour. Throughout the day people would glance up at the clock and check the time to see if their watches were correct. This helped people stay coordinated with each other for appointments, meetings, and their daily activities. Even with this helpful asset some townspeople would complain, couldn’t the town lower the clock, so it is not so high up to look at? Others chimed in, why can’t the town lower the clock to eye level and make it more accessible to fix? Still others would question, is the clock on the tower always right since it recently chimed a thirteenth strike rather than one. Some people thought the prior hours must be called into question given one wrong strike is one too many and perhaps all the strikes could be wrong. The noisy clock watchers were so persuasive that the town council held a meeting and made a decision to lower the clock. Then, once lowered, people noticed the clock was wrong more often than their watches. They started to demand the clock be readjusted too often and soon the clock broke. The townspeople no longer cared if the clock was being maintained so it was dismantled and thrown away as trash. Traditions like that old clock in the tower and its chimes are rapidly being destroyed because we find it inconvenient to look up and ask why the clock tower was created in the first place. Clock towers had been built since antiquity, initially without faces and solely as striking clocks with bells to call the surrounding community to work or worship. As they became more common designers added a dial on the outside of a tower so that townspeople could read them. This gave townspeople a sense of time and place. Those few who were deaf could now see the time. Kim Monson Show Sponsor Roger Mangan State Farm Insurance Today, we are so used to having our eyes fixated on our phones, tablets, and computers for information, it causes us to miss the opportunity to have meaningful interactions with each other. We miss the human connection of looking up at each other and engaging in shared interests and ideas. There are places where people can connect with each other such as in Toastmasters. In my Toastmasters club we practice public speaking and listening by hearing fellow members inform, inspire, persuade, and entertain by speaking and telling stories that make a point. We practice the oral tradition of rhetoric which can have a powerful connection between people if a speaker can transfer their emotion to their audience. I often practice my Toastmasters speeches while driving. When I do so I must still look up and forward through the windshield, otherwise I will crash. When you watch a movie or TV, you must look up and forward to see the screen or you miss the story. When you fly a kite or stargaze into the night sky you must look up and forward. Why then do some reject the traditions that brought us to the point of looking up and forward? Why is the old way perceived as bad and the new way better? Why do we let the noisy few rule the day? I embrace technology and new innovations which make our lives better. I am looking forward to seeing how artificial intelligence will enhance our standard of living. I am by no means a Luddite. Yet, for me nothing is better than actual intelligence, having a conversation with an actual person, and looking in their eyes during a dialog. I relish reading the expression on their faces and exploring ideas that are worthy of looking into, looking up to, looking forward to. There have always been those who want convenience or to take the easy path. I question whether they are seeking knowledge (information) or wisdom (prudence)! We have become so affluent in our society whereby patience, persistence, piety have become elastic and malleable. Our social norms and culture are rapidly changing and those who wish to control the boundaries of what is acceptable keep pushing the Overton Window. The situation we now find ourselves in reminds me of the fool that eats too much at a buffet and blames the restaurant for offering an abundance of food to choose from. Finding himself uncomfortably full, he points at others to blame for his gluttony. He does not have the discipline of self-mastery. As election season intensifies and the noise gets louder, as nations battle each other while not respecting the rights of others, and as the old things and ways are continually being replaced, my challenge to you is take time to look up and see what is true, good, and beautiful. It takes effort to seek objectively higher things and that is why we need more clock towers to keep us grounded while looking up. https://kimmonson.com/featured_articles/looking-up/?vgo_ee=Jsy965JEx2YnsoYAu5yUJl%2BnjqJQKQAGdgUvmnvyZyEdTok7nSIrGOYJ%3ASlVcTxY1RxZqo5qP19jFwaXVukQ1BGUQ

We Need More, Not Less Carts

Sylvan Goldman was the owner of a chain of grocery stores called Humpty Dumpty in Oklahoma City. He observed the difficulty women shoppers where having, trying to balance a hand-held shopping basket full of groceries and hold her child. He wanted to alleviate this problem in his self-serve store in 1937. Plus, he was thinking of how he could increase his business for shoppers to buy more goods while in his store. The solution was a wire framed cart with wheels that had multiple baskets or as his patent was titled, “Folding Basket Carriage for Self-Service Stores.” Today we know it as the shopping cart. At first this wheeled buggy did not catch on. Women thought it too much like a baby carriage. Men thought it too effeminate to push. Frustrated with the lack of acceptance of his invention, Goldman hired models to push his invention in his stores to demonstrate its use and hired greeters to invite shoppers to use his shopping carts. In time they became wildly successful. Even today online websites refer to their customers purchases as filling their cart. In politics, the goal of any political party is to increase the number of voters for your candidate or public policy position. You must make it easy for the voters to like your ideas and platform. You must help make the voters comfortable with their buying decision and get more of them to vote your way and fill their cart with friends and family to vote with you. This proximity impact moves the needle and wins elections. The political party one belongs to needs more people pushing more carts of like-minded people voting, supporting, and investing in people and thereby getting their candidates elected to represent them. The goal of a political party is simple; to get people elected to represent their party and fundraise to do so. They should have some philosophical platform that guides them, like protecting individual rights, or advocating for a limited government, or leaving people alone to pursue their own happiness by embracing freedom and rejecting force. A political party should activate citizens to get involved and work towards these goals. Imagine being an active member of a political party and holding the position of Vice-Chair, District Captain, and Precinct Committee Person. Imagine having the responsibility of administering the party’s social media, participating in their communication team, and volunteering for the last ten years conducting their monthly morning meetings. Envision yourself a participant in the county assembly and a delegate to numerous state conventions. Walking in parades, knocking on doors for candidates, making countless phone calls and attending innumerable executive committee meetings. Investing your time tabling at countless community events and having been called every name conceivable for representing your party. You have volunteered in the trenches and worked tirelessly for your party, which has led to lifelong friendships with the best people, who you value for their fortitude and prudence. The County Party you worked with built relationships in the community, by attending community events and working with all involved to protect rights. A trust and an understanding were created over time. Then, imagine a new regime is elected to lead your state party and the new leadership, and its chairman no longer do the one thing they were elected to do, bring party members together. The new regime’s leadership is tasked with building unity and coalition with volunteers to elect and fundraise for candidates. Instead of showing how shopping carts work and adding more people to push and purchase the ideas and the candidates you’re selling, the leadership divides, demigods, and destroys the very thing you and many others have worked to help build. You have read leaderships divisive emails calling out people they disagree with, and they use their religious viewpoint to proselytize. They demonstrate a lack of ethics and leadership by excluding rather than building a bigger tent and filling their carts with more people. They endorse candidates prior to a primary, even if it is permissible in their rules, which is not good public relations for their party. They allegedly use party infrastructure to run their own Congressional campaign, while remaining as party chair, which also has the appearance of a lust for power. Their behavior, choices, and actions define their character and as such you can no longer follow the leadership of the state party. In effect you resign from your local party activism because you can no longer support what the state leadership represents. In my opinion, that state party needs their own Sylvan Goldman to build and fill more carts to hold more people who believe in the principle of individual rights. That party should encourage more people to join the cause through electing and fundraising principled candidates. It should be encouraging free people to innovate, create, and produce, not indoctrinate, and tyrannize. That state party should use the power of persuasion for bigger and better ideas, and not use their position for personal gain. Carts are for filling, not emptying. https://shorturl.at/ajynW

This Independence Day

Every year on Independence Day I listen to a CD recorded by Dr. John Ridpath titled, The Declaration of Independence – America’s Saga. I met Dr. Ridpath in 2010 at the Leadership Program of the Rockies Annual Retreat. He was an Associate Professor of Economics and Intellectual History at York University in Toronto, Canada. Dr. Ridpath always made the moral case for capitalism, individualism, and reason. He loved America and the American founding. He was most fond of Thomas Jefferson and his penning of the Declaration of Independence. His lecture on Individual Rights and the Founding of America is a classic. Sadly, he passed away in 2021. Dr. Ridpath was a Canadian. In his lecture recordings, one can hear him become choked up when he speaks of “those host of worthies” of the American Founding. He recognized in these men, as they did for the first time in human history, the universal, equal, natural rights of all men as a basis to build a new society. Stop and let that sink in. Never in the history of mankind did a group of men gather to discuss, argue, debate, and take action on an idea that had never been done. I marvel at the concept of recognizing individual rights. Throughout history, men have been ruled by other men through force by a king, tribal chief, potentates, and despots. The American experiment was different. The former Prime Minister of England, Margaret Thacher was quoted, “Europe was created by history. America was created by philosophy.” This philosophy of recognizing individual rights was a radical idea that revolutionized America as an exceptional nation. We were founded on the morality of protecting individual rights whether they be intellectual or physical property rights. I am often amazed at my friends born in other countries, yet as Americans by choice, recognize the difference from their birth countries. Whether from China, Cuba, Mexico, or Sweden they came to this country and became Americans for the one thing they were seeking, freedom. Freedom to succeed or fail. Freedom to practice a religion or not. Freedom to print, read, and say what they want. Freedom to assemble and petition their representatives. And freedom to protect themselves with the one caveat of not harming others. They knew once in this country their individual rights would be protected. The other tradition I do on Independence Day is recite my favorite poem from one of my favorite musicians, Charlie Daniels. His simple melodic words in his song, “My Beautiful America” remind me of the beauty of this land and the people who inhabit our shores. The lyrics at the end of this song are thus; “This then is America! The land God blesses with everything. And no Eiffel Tower; no Taj Mahal. No Alps; No Andes. No native hut; nor Royal Palace can rival her awesome beauty. Her diverse population, her monolithic majesty. America the Free! America the mighty! America the beautiful.” As this Independence Day approaches, I am grateful to live in the greatest country, at the greatest time. Despite all the problems and turmoil in our nation, I am optimistic and hopeful because of the American people and that uniquely American idea of Individual Rights. Remember this gift on this Independence Day. https://kimmonson.com/featured_articles/this-independence-day/?vgo_ee=KRjfrgu3UOoxOuDo%2FD7%2FOBx%2BqIGNBudi9Prh3hYbUHTlQ%2B%2FbzI1T0d16%3ABZaaepYMTNQoAl0voOkxJgbrMXuJS7co

Stop Pulling My Weeds

“Bradley, stop pulling my weeds,” exclaimed my father. “Come up on the porch and have a glass of wine with me.” I ignored his call to stop. My father is ninety-one years old and lives alone in a 1920s Craftsman home with a white picket fence surrounding it. He will not hire a gardener to help him maintain it, so I feel obligated to help him by doing yard work when I visit. My Dad likes the wild look of his yard. I can’t stand it. Too much is overgrown and is unkept even for a Xeriscape front yard. The weeds had invaded his gravel walkway, and boxwood hedges and colorful succulents had spilled over their designed area. It appeared unkept and messy. He yells again, “Bradley, stop pulling my weeds. Come up on the porch and have a glass of wine with me.” I kept working, pulling at the unwelcome vegetation. Finally finished I sat down with the rest of the family to enjoy a glass of wine, relax, and celebrate his birthday. My father is in great physical shape however he has a hearing issue. I guess that is something I inherited from him. His hearing problem is from being an ornery nonagenarian. Mine is from not wanting to listen to him complain about helping him. Kim Monson Show Sponsor MISSION Laramie Energy’s mission is to maintain an excellent reputation as a Rockies oil and gas producer committed to environmental protection, safety, and regional community interests while prudently investing its capital in high potential unconventional oil and gas resource plays that will generate an above average return on investment. My father does not feel he needs any help. He has always been independent-minded and does not enjoy having people do things for him. He is appreciative when someone does take an interest in sharing something or giving a token of appreciation, yet he does not want to appear in need or want of anything. He relishes his independence and often declines anyone who wishes to assist him. I understand his “leave me alone and I’ll get along fine” attitude. From the founding of this country up until the Progressive era, Americans have always had a “leave me alone” attitude. The federal government was established to do some essential needs such as protecting its citizens in case of attack. Although leery of standing armies, Americans saw a need for a federal Army and Navy to protect their fellow citizens from foreign invasion. The people saw a need for a police force to protect them from a criminal element and protect their property. Then lastly, a court was established to adjudicate people’s disagreements. That was about the limit of the federal government’s powers. Most adventures outside their preview were prohibited. Everything else was for the local government to undertake, thinking a local government would be closer for the people to challenge. Since human nature does not change there is often a clash of ideas when two or more people gather. My father wanted to spend time with me and drink some wine. I wanted to help him clean up his yard and have the appearance of conformity by maintaining his property. I should have honored his wishes but my “I know better” attitude appeared. Why did this happen to me, a liberty-loving, free-market advocate? My nature of wanting to help a family member, yet usurping his wishes to just let things be, overcame me. This experience demonstrates how quickly we have conflicts of interest when we think we know best and may indeed be right. However, without the consent of the other to take action, it is not our place to disregard a property owner’s wishes. One could argue there are municipal codes for the upkeep and maintenance of property such as public nuisance or health codes to be enforced. My father’s property was never close to this status; however, it was not to my liking or esthetic. It was messy but not so bad that it was in any violation. What is it in our human nature that makes us oppose someone else’s wishes? Our Founders studied human nature from the ancients like Pythagoras to Aristotle, from Seneca and Cicero, and later Sidney, Smith, and Montesquieu. What they found is what we experience daily. Someone with a different idea and power, however slight, will use their tacit authority to force their way on others. These prudent thinkers help mold the unique attributes of America. They understand that the individual is sovereign, and the proper role of government is to protect individual rights and property. It is not to help or assist unless asked for. When help is called upon it should be through the private sector through association with others to help. Upon arriving home, I received a card from my father thanking me for visiting and celebrating his birthday. Then after his words of gratitude came his rebuke. “Brad………Please, please, please DO NOT PICK MY WEEDS. PLEASE Brad Do Not Cut or Pull My Weeds. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE Brad Do Not Pick My Weeds. Please, please. I enjoy it so much when you guys visit and stay with me; BUT PLEASE, PLEASE DO NOT PULL MY WEEDS. DO NOT PULL MY WEEDS. This sentiment filled the card. I think I got his message. Now, if we only can get the federal government to do the same. https://kimmonson.com/featured_articles/stop-pulling-my-weeds/?vgo_ee=g21CjlxksfZFwp7cHC32sEyR2klcpnTGqr99R%2FxaZcVGsXRTbo4F%2F37e%3Ar6iW846mfJAgRih0SLxvgS42w62yQ8aH

The Highest Use of the Good

I’m Jewish. At 65 years old I have never felt the cold hand of antisemitism, or as it should be called, a hatred of Jews. I was brought up in a time when discrimination was all but gone. I did not have to escape a pogrom or pick up arms to defend my right to exist. I was free to do, to think, or to say almost anything if I did not physically hurt anyone else. As our sixth President, John Quincy Adams once said “Posterity; you will never know how much it has cost my generation to preserve your freedom. I hope you will make good use of it”. However, in 2024 I sense the culture has changed. I can feel it, I can hear it, and I can see it. By now you too have heard the maniacal chant by ill-informed college students and professional agitators, “From the river to the sea…,” referring to the annihilation of the State of Israel. The Jewish-hating malcontents and their ilk know nothing of history or truth. Yet, they want my people, my fellow Jews, exterminated. Most will not come out and say it outright. They are cowards. They use the terms Zionist, occupier, or colonist. They are part of the leftist, BLM, Antifa, social-justice crowd who want to tear down the Western World with their Marxist, woke worldview. Need proof? According to Vatican News, since 2009, over 50,000 Christians have been slaughtered in Nigeria by the Islamist Boko Haram. Yet hardly a peep from the traditional media. In Sudan, a year-old civil war is raging, and sixteen thousand people have been killed, 8.2 million have fled their homes, and there is a looming hunger crisis. The Sudanese Christians are caught in the middle of the battle. And yet there has been little reporting on the nightly news of these events. Kim Monson Show Sponsor National Shooting Sports Federation Every day and night the legacy media of the world spotlights the war in Gaza since the Hamas attacks on Israel on October 7. Israeli young people dancing at a rave were murdered by Islamist terrorists. Israelis in their homes were mercilessly butchered, women raped. Israeli, American, and other citizens were kidnapped and executed by these vermin. Five Americans are still being held hostage and not a yellow ribbon on a tree or a poster on a bulletin board at a Post Office. Ask yourself why there is so much news on Gaza. The Israelis have the right and moral obligation to defend themselves from terrorists, yet there is no worldwide outrage about the massacres in Africa or in other places in the world. Why are college campuses exploding with hate for Jews, yet there are no marches, chants, or concern for Christians who being persecuted? I was recently reminded of a passage in the Torah, the Jewish Bible, in Genesis 15:18 “On that day the Lord made a covenant with Abram, saying, ‘To your offspring I assign this land, from the river of Egypt to the great river, the river Euphrates’ ,” meaning present day Israel, Jordan, Syria, and Iraq. The Jewish people were promised all this land by God. Does this divine promise mean Israel should fight the nations that occupy this land? Of course not. Yet, for the Jews there is a different set of rules. That begs the question how do you deal with the fight over land and the grief of feeling your world is about to break apart? Paraphrasing James Madison, how can you console your mind with reason and overcome the passions of the heart and the desires of the stomach? Personally, I have found some solace in old texts. I was browsing at a local bookstore and found a title, “The Pursuit of Happiness” by Jeffrey Rosen. He is an author and the president of the Constitution Center in Philadelphia. Using original sources, Rosen cites the books the American Founders read and studied prior and during the American Revolution. The book creates the appetite for pursuing the principle of happiness through the writings of many ancient wisdom philosophers such as Pythagoras, Senica, and Marcus Tullis Cicero. Cicero, the Roman lawyer, orator, scholar, and statesman wrote his Tusculan Disputations, in about 45 B.C.E., after his daughter Tullis died following childbirth. Overcome with grief, Cicero removed himself from the public and retired to his villa in Tusculum to console himself and write Tusculan Disputations in five sections titled, “on the contempt of death, on pain, on grief, on emotional disturbances, and whether virtue by itself is good enough to live a happy life”. Over millennia word definitions have evolved and today happiness is defined as short-term pleasure. In the time of Cicero and the Founders such as John Adams, Thomas Jefferson, and Benjamin Franklin, happiness was defined as the pursuit of long-term virtue through the practice of self-mastery. A person accomplished happiness by disobeying their desires and emotions and prioritizing their reason through the classical virtues of temperance, which is moderation, prudence which is wisdom, justice which is fairness, and fortitude which is courage. Incorporating this appeal to reason would go a long way in our responses to the world as it currently manifests itself. The only thing you can control is your turbulent emotions. You can find peace in the tranquility of a calm mind. Like most of you, I have read the vile words on social media about Jews. I have heard the vitriol on the news. Imagine if the same thing were said about Blacks, Hispanics, Asians, women, or gays. It’s expected that those who are attacked will lash out and react. It has become unfamiliar to use the virtue of prudence, temperance, justice, and fortitude of the ancients. It takes discipline to reject that which has found a voice in discontent and rejoice in the knowledge that controlling oneself is the highest use of the good. I have understood that persuasion, patience, and persistence is the only way to save our republic, and indeed our world, without getting into a global conflict. The exception is when tyrants and evil want to do the opposite. Taking up arms by using force is the despots’ only solution. Then they should be met with disproportionate force to protect one’s sovereignty to defend the dignity of the individual. The limited power of the federal government has one major purpose, to protect the individual rights of its citizens. With a weak President our fellow citizens and country are at risk. John Quincy Adams wrote “America, with the same voice which spoke herself into existence as a nation, proclaimed to mankind the inextinguishable rights of human nature.” My hope is that our representatives use their persuasive skills and use reason to protect all people to live in peace. “Am Yisreal Chai” meaning “the Jewish People Live.” https://kimmonson.com/featured_articles/the-highest-use-of-the-good/?vgo_ee=pDHLWcES68IWqvrr0mTQLZwgfEmvi9O%2Fx2jf5PABff1SEw1pFC1vH5HA%3AeJLQ2TNP5wl88b%2Fgb6M6gRv5mB2Jm4ie